Anecdotes, Antidotes, and Anodes

Day 8: Breast Cancer Awareness

My youngest daughter made this to wear in Race for the Cure in Tulsa.

Thank you, Brookie !  I love you !

Day 7: Aunt Paula & Aunt Sue... This Post is for You !

This photo was posted in May of this year while visiting my cousin in Santa Fe.  At that time, our Aunt Paula and Aunt Sue were in the midst of aggressive cancer treatments.  One for lung cancer and the other for multiple myeloma.  So happy to report that both are doing well and still fighting.

 

Cousins having way too much fun in Santa Fe to explain anything . . .

. . . but a couple of you out there know the story behind this photo.

"Once uponce a time there were two cousins . . . and they are living happily and healthily ever after."

Proof that Early Detective Saves Lives !

 

Day 6: Breast Cancer Awareness

 
    October is Breast Cancer Awareness month !

 

If you're over 40, and haven't had a mammogram in the past year, SCHEDULE IT TODAY !

If you have a history of Breast Cancer in your family, schedule an appointment with your doctor to discuss what steps you should be taking.

No matter what your age, if you have questions, be sure to contact someone who can give you information that you are looking for.

If you have boobs, do a self-exam once a month. If you don't know how, CLINK THIS LINK.

Remember:  Every THREE minutes, a woman is diagnosed with Breast Cancer.  Every THIRTEEN minutes, a woman dies of breast cancer. (More facts here.)

Men can have Breast Cancer, too.  If a difference is ever noticed . . .size, lump, shape, soreness, etc., be sure to have an examination.

Early Detection Saves Lives !

Day 5: Support Systems for Breast Cancer Patients

Several readers have requested that this bit of information be re-posted, so here it is:

When I see anything that resembles red Kool-aid, my hair trembles. Adriamycin, better known in my circle of chemo-friends as The Red Devil, was pumped into my body for several months. Along with another cell-killer, Cytoxan.  When all the docs determined that I had no choice but to receive massive dosages of chemotheraphy, I began researching all the ways to keep one's hair from falling off one's head.  One bit of advice was to let ice packs sit on one's head until one's brain froze. So, at the first visit with my new-best-friend, my oncologist, Dr. Schneitzer, I ask him what he thought about that idea.

His exact words were, "Kathy, you could sit in a freezer 24/7 and your hair is still going to fall out !"

My chemotheraphy came before the FDA had approved Zofran for nausea.  But, I had been approved for a double-blind study that allowed them to give me either the Zofran or a placebo during my first chemo-cocktail. As luck would have it, I received the placebo, and consequently threw up my toenails within two hours of having those drugs shot into my blood stream. I had always heard of the word BILE, but never really knew what it looked like and certainly, not what it tasted like. People, I'm here to tell you, IT AIN'T PRETTY !  Green is not one of my favorite colors to this day, and I still gag at the sound of the word.  

The chemo took it's toll on my entire body AND mind AND spirit AND hair. When I began, I weighed a whopping 112 pounds. After two treatments, I topped the scales at 98 pounds.  I stopped weighing myself for fear that the scales would register a negative number.  (Don't worry, I've gained it all back plus some !)

But I digress...

Here's where the words SUPPORT SYSTEM come to mind. My support system was the greatest. It consisted of my two daughters, my two aunts and their families, and 100's of friends. When I say HUNDREDS, I'm not exaggerating.  Because I had been teaching in this little city in Okrahoma for ten years, I had met many teachers, principals, parents, and students. They rallied. There were sign-up lists to bring us dinner each night. There were sign-up lists to take SwampSpawn to softball. When my 40+ radiation treatments were scheduled, there were sign-up lists to drive me to Tulsa every day for over eight weeks for those.

At this point, you may be wondering, or maybe not, where  hubby and my parents and my siblings were.  Well, hubby and I were going through a very tramatic divorce. Aren't they all?  Neither of my parents were living. And I was, and still am, an only child.  So there.  During that first visit with Dr. Schneitzer when my aunt from that state south of Okrahoma was with me, as she was for E.V.E.R.Y. treatment, asked about my immediate family members and learning there weren't that many, he asked her, "What are we going to do with this girl?"  My first thought was, "JUST SHOOT ME !"

Now, back to SUPPORT SYSTEMS. Someday you may be a part of someone's support system. Here's one bit of advice:

Don't ask, "What can I do?" 

Say:
1) I noticed there's no milk or eggs in the refrigerator. I'll be back with a few groceries and some Braum's ice cream.
2) I know that your daughter needs to be at softball on Tuesdays and Thursdays. I'll make sure she gets there.
3) Because I know that it bothers you if your house is dusty, leave me your keys to the house, and while you're at treatment, I'll clean it.
4) Food will be here for you and your girls every night because I've coordinated a list of those who will deliver it.   On the weekend, I'll be here to consolidate all the left overs and clean your refrigerator.
5) Our house has an open door for your teenage daughter. Whenever she needs a place to escape, she is welcome.
6) I'm sending my son over to mow your yard.
7) Get your scrawny a$$ dressed, we're going for a ride to get some fresh air.
8) I'll be here to take you to your doctor's appointment tomorrow. Afterwards, we'll go to a movie.
9) Here's a gift card to The Spa for a manicure, pedicure, massage, and hot oil treatment for your bald head.
10) Don't be afraid of your friend's cancer. "I had cancer. It didn't have me !"

Get the picture?

For me, it was difficult to even know what I needed. Much less, ask someone to do it for me. So, look around.  There are many things that will be evident that you can help with. 

I know you've seen this photo before, but once again, here it is: 
(Wicked Witch, close your eyes.)

If you have a few minutes, be sure to scroll down for:
"What Cancer Cannot Do"
and
The List of Those Honored (You may still add names to this list because I'm still donating a dollar for each one to Breast Cancer Research.)

My friend, Alison, has left this wonderful idea to add to the above list:

great list swampy and so true....can I add one thing to it...

when my friend was diagnosed for the 3rd time with metastasis my first question was the proverbial "what can I do". she said "make me laugh"

I sent my friend a card every week with a joke in it. I did this for 2 years until she lost her battle..she loved them and saved all of them. when her brother was diagnosed with cancer, she sent him some of the cards. When she passed away I continued the tradition for her husband.

sending a note/card regularly is a nice way to say "I am thinking of you"

 

Day 4: Breast Cancer Tributes

This post was created in October of 2008.  It was my attempt to raise money for Breast Cancer Research.  As you read, you may recognize some of those honored here:

Many of the links do not work anymore, as some of these bloggers no longer blog.

The educational links should still work.

 

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For the last two years during October, I have posted my personal journey from the day I was diagnosed over many hills and through many valleys of surgery, chemotherapy and radiation treatments, and FINALLY remission.  (See Categories:  Breast Cancer Awareness)

My objective was to bring attention to the fact that
Early Detection Saves Lives.

This year, I plan to approach this subject a little differently.

I would like to honor the memories of those we have lost to this disease and to also celebrate the lives of those like me, who have been lucky enough to survive it. I tried to come up with a catchy name for this "EVENT" and since these were already taken...

Relay for Life

Race for the Cure

Making Strides Against Breast Cancer

Avon Walk for Breast Cancer

and many more

. . . I decided to call my event,

Swampy's Stomp Through Blogville Against Breast Cancer 

If you are a breast cancer survivor or have a family member or friend who has had breast cancer or is being treated for it now, and would like to honor them here, please give me their names and any information you care to share in the comments. 

I especially want to honor the memories of those who we have lost to this disease.

  You are welcome to send your own creation to:  

  swampwitch06 at gmail dot com       

and I will add it to this post. (Be sure it is sized for the web.)

Your creations can be sunrises, rainbows, drawings, photographs, whatever you want to use...

OR, just leave me information on the comment page and I will try to honor them in my own way.

If you are not a blogger but want to be a part of this, just leave whatever information you would like to share in the comments and I will post it here.

I will update with new information and "re-post" as often as possible so that you can see the continuing list.

For each person who is honored here during the month of October, I will donate $1.00 to Breast Cancer Research.

 

Join me for . . .

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"Swampy's Stomp Through Blogville Against Breast Cancer."
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This pink flower is to honor my life-long friend, Nancy, who was diagnosed with Breast Cancer in February of 1999. She has just recently retired from her teaching career in Southeastern Oklahoma and is enjoying playing bridge and book clubs.

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These pink tulips are to honor my life-long friend, Aletha, who was diagnosed with Breast Cancer on April 20, 2005. She received her treatments at M.D. Anderson. Presently, she is the principal where we both taught together and enjoys her grandsons, Truman, Carter, and Jack.
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This photo of Western Skies from my balcony is for my blogbud Slick's, Mom.
Be sure to read his Monday, October 1 post.

It can get fairly "R" rated over there, so cover your eyes as you scroll down to that post.

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4)    This is Equoni's grandmother, Elizabeth "Betty" C.  (As most of you know, Equoni is a guest writer at Willowtree's Place on occasion.)  Her grandma was diagnosed with Breast Cancer in the early 1980's and survived it. After her mastectomy, one thing she was sad about was that she was not able to play tennis anymore. This photo was taken on her NINETIETH birthday. She passed away this past August at the age of 90. Equoni says, "I'm sorry I don't remember exactly when she had breast cancer...I was a kid and she just took care of it the way she always did, no fuss."

  

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This photo taken close to Box Canyon Falls in Ouray, Colorado is to honor Hertha Wakefield. Hope Marie Carlton submitted her name for us to remember.

  

 

  

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6)      This photo taken in Seattle, Washington, is to  honor Donna Hovland of Red Wing, Minnesota. She has battled cancer three different times for the past fourteen years.  She was dignosed terminal in September of this year. She has three loving children and a husband. Her name was submitted by her daughter, Kayla.                                                                

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The next five, Aunt Beth, Fiona, Mary Ellen, Aunt Mary, and Kim were all submitted by my blogbud, Alison.

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Aunt Beth is a TWENTY-FIVE year survivor. She is an incredible woman with a wonderful sense of humor.

This is a photo of our beautiful golden aspens of Colorado.

  

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Fiona is a seven year survivor. She is the woman who will come over for a cuppa tea in the morning and stay for dinner...we never know where the time goes and our voices are hoarse from chatting and laughing all day.

This is a photo was taken at The Blue Mesa, Colorado.

  

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Mary Ellen is in the battle of her life right now. She has had a mastectomy and chemo treatments the past year. She recently had two ribs removed from her metastasis and is beginning radiation treatments next week. Her son is six years old and her spirit and strength are amazing.

Photo: Pike Market bouquet
Seattle, Washington

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Alison's husband's Aunt Mary lost her battle last year.   She was an amazing woman who dedicated her life to her children, especially her developmentally delayed son.

  

This photo is the sun rise on Mt. Garfield, Colorado. 

  

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KIm lost her battle with Breast Cancer this past April. Kim's love of life and her spirit were inspirational. Her positive outlook was commendable. I never heard a negative word come out of her mouth. Everyday I still miss her. Her sons are in high school.

Photo: Blue Mesa Colorado.

  

Honors 7 - 11 were submitted by Alison.

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Thanks to Paulette Allard for the $10.00 donation to Breast Cancer Research.

Current tally:
Swampy owes          $11.00
Paulette's donation = $10.00

Total =                     $21.00

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12)  Heather honors her Aunt Louise who is battling Breast Cancer right now. She was diagnosed in December of 2007 and has had surgery and has undergone chemo. She is still receiving treatments and doing well. She is a nurse and Mother of four. She is married to Heather's Uncle Dave and is a Grandmother to many. She always made Heather feel special growing up. They are praying for her remission every day.

This photo was taken at Fallen Leaf Lake close to Lake Tahoe.

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This photo taken over the Great Salt Lake at sunset is to honorMike Golch's Grandma Helen HIrt who lost her battle with breast cancer in 1985 at the age of 75.

  

  

  

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Honors 14 & 15 & 16 were sent to me by my blog friend, Chaotic Lisa.

  

  

Photo: ducks on a pond in Grand Junction

  

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Marilyn survived Breast Cancer for ten years but was lost to another type of cancer just recently.

  

  

Photo: Sunflower in Swampy's yard planted by her daughter.

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Lisa's, Grandma Jean survived Breast Cancer in the late 1990's but passed with Alzheimers in 2006, while Lisa herself was undergoing chemotheraphy.

Photo: The beautiful snow of Westcliffe, Colorado.

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17)  Deb asked that we honor her Grandma Darlene who not only survived her original battle with breast cancer, but two recurrences. She is a strong woman in body, mind, and soul. Deb says, "May many more women be blessed as she is."

Photo: I chose this rose from my garden in honor of "Grandma Darlene"...strong and beautiful. It is one of the last roses of the season that bloomed gracefully and beautifully, probably just like "Grandma Darlene."

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Equoni asked that her friend and former neighbor, Linda, a five year survivor be honored.

  

Photo: A view that Equoni enjoyed so many times when she was my neighbor.

  

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19)  This is to honor my dear friend, Angela, another Breast Cancer survivor (SOS) who lives on Staten Island. Her family members are all heroes in my eyes having helped so many during the tragic days after 9/11. The 'men-folk' are either policemen or firefighters and the ladies are...well, ladies...graceful and lyrical just like these beautiful Trumpeter Swans.

Photo: Taken at Bloedel Reserve

Bainbridge Island, Washington

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20) My friend, Karra, honors the young motherof a twelve year-old girl who did not have  health insurance. By the time she admitted to having some problems, there were lumps everywhere, and she was in Stage Four Breast Cancer. She died four months later.I wonder how many more there are like this young girl who have no insurance and are afraid to go to a doctor in fear of what will be found.

Photo: Sunset over Lake Powell


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Karra also honors her beautiful sister-in-law, Liz, who is an eighteen year survivor.

Photo: Mountains at Telluride, Colorado

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Karra also honors me.

I found my b-b-sized lump during a self-examination of my ta-ta's. Now, if you don't do Ta-Ta-Exams, start today. Here's how. (Clink that link)

 Photo: One of my favorite places in the World...Akumal, Mexico.

 

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Current Tally for Breast Cancer Research

Swampy owes =        $22.00
Paulette's donation=  $10.00
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Total =                    $23.00
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23)  Wendy knew Connie from E-Bay and fast became e-mail friends. She lost her battle with cancer last year on her third go-round with it. She was passionate about sharing her survival story and never lost her positive mind set that she was going to beat it AGAIN. She was hilarious, loved rolly chairs, and they both always joked about the tricks the "man behind the curtain" (OZ) would play on them when they were looking for lost items or when things became out of sorts...it was the man behind the curtain who was to blame. Wendy says she was a very, very funny, loving lady and was survived by her hubby, Freddy and her children.

Photo: Taken from a plane of Mt. Ranier
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24)    Jenny only knew her a Mrs. Rose. She passed on almost ten years ago from Breast Cancer. She knew her sweet husband and children, including her young daughter who decided to have a preventative double mastectomy after seeing both her mother and aunt die from the disease. Jenny says, "The courage of that family inspires me."

Photo: Reflection of Colorado Aspens

     

  

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25)   Mental P Mama (whose real name I don't know) asked that Ramsey Lee who lost her battle with Breast Cancer in 2003 at the age of 53 be honored.

  

  

Photo:  Taken at Newport Beach

  

  

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  Megan says in her e-mail to me, "Good evening ! I'd like to honor my mother who lost her battle with Breast Cancer in 1973. She was 29 and in the clinical trials for chemotherapy...But, I'd also like to thank her because I've had mammograms since I was 25 and last year, they found something itty bitty. I was able to have it biopsied, and it turned out to be nothing.  THANKS MA ! I miss you !"

  

Photo:  Newport Beach, California

  

  

  

  

  

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27) Kate, honors her sister-in-law, Mary. She is a survivor. She was clear for three years, then diagnosed again the the other breast. After a lumpectomy, radiation, and chemotherapy, she is in remission for seven years. Kate repeats, "She is a survivor !!"

  

  

Photo: Windmills Somewhere in Wyoming

  

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The next two photos were sent to me by my, "old-timer" blog friend, KARMYN R. She was one of the very first commenters on one of my very first posts way back in August of 2006. Even though we've never met, I feel like I know her...I mean, I've hosted a baby shower for the girl and watched her have a baby boy not long ago. Well, I really didn't watch her, but seemed as though I was pregnant with her during the nine months she posted the progress reports. Thanks, Karmyn for taking the time to share these two beautiful photos honoring your loved ones.

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Karmyn says, "Myra was my step-mother who died May 2001. She had a very aggressive form of Breast Cancer. She valiantly fought for three years before it took her. Her ashes were scattered in the Pacific Ocean, just outside of the San Juan Islands, her favorite place in the World."

  

  

  

Photo:
Provided by Karmyn R.

  

  

  

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29)  Donna was Myra's sister, Karmyn's aunt. In 2002, a year after Myra passed, Donna found a lump. Fortunately for her, the cancer was diagnosed early and after a year of treatment she was CANCER FREE. She has been in remission ever since. She kept her discovery and treatment a secret until after she was cancer free. Only a few family members knew what she was going through...and the whole reasoning? She didn't want the news to reach her mother...it would be too hard on her to think she was losing another daughter to the disease.

Photo: Provided by Karmyn
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The next two photographs were sent to me by another long-time blog friend, PamelaPamelaJamela. She is Karmyn R's mom. Just like Karmyn, Pamela was one of the first to ever land on my Glob, and has continued to visit for over two years now. She shares some very important infomation that I hope you take the time to research.

30) Pamela writes, "My sister Sandra is the mermaid waving on the left. SHE IS A SURVIVOR...over TWENTY years. My hope is that her gandchildren and my grandchildren will live in a World that has conquered this scourge. I am a participant in The Sister Study. The program has had an amazing response but is still looking for sisters in the following categories:  African-American, Latinas, Asisans and Pacific Islanders, and Native Americans between the ages of 35-74. Caucasian women between the ages of 65-74 or with a high school degree of less. If your sister had breast cancer and you fit into those categories, please follow the link I provided and sign up now. A cure is waiting and you might be the answer.     

Photo:  Provide by Pamela, the Mermaid
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31)  And then, there is this one. Because Pamela would always e-mail updates to me about her, I feel like I knew her...

BRENDA
buried Saturday, October 4, 2008
A daughter, a sister, a wife, a mother, a teacher, a friend
This is the photo her daughter placed in a heart-shaped flowered wreath by her casket.

Pamela says, "This is how I want to always remember her."

Here is Pamela's post about Brenda.

Photo: from Pamela
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32) Equoni want to honor her mom's cousin, Betty. She had a rare form of Breast Cancer, Inflammatory Breast Cancer, and it was very advanced before she was properly diagnosed. Her chances for survival were around 10%. She went through grueling chemotherapy, maybe radiation, too. But she BEAT IT !! Equoni thinks that this was about 15 years ago and she is as healthy as can be now !!!

Photo: Bug and Bubba...because I know how much my friend, Equoni, loves my dogs. 
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33) Tina asks that her mother-in-law, Carmella be honored. Tina says, "She fought this horrible disease for five years and just when we all thought she had it beat. Cancer decided it wanted her and spread throughout her body. She lost her battle with Breast Cancer on December 25, 2005. She was a wonderful Mother, Mother-in-Law, Grandmother, and woman. She is remembered dearly and missed beyond words. "

Photo: Clouds above Seattle, WA

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The next three tributes are from my very long-time Blog-Bud, Robin.  We "met" over two years ago and have continued to correspond on a regular basis.

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37) The next two tributes come from a Brand New Blogger, Maggie. She wants to honor her friend, Robin, who was just diagnosed with Breast Cancer, 1 1/2 weeks ago. 

 

 

 

Photo:  Angel Trumpet, Bloedel Reserve, Bainbridge Island, Washington

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Maggie's other friend is Denise, who has been cancer-free for F.I.V.E. years.

 

 

Photo:  Emerald Island, Lake Tahoe

 

 

Be sure to go visit Maggie and tell her Swampy sent you. There are some precious photos at her place.

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My donation has been matched with an anonymous donor !

Current Tally for Breast Cancer Research:

Swampy owes                          $38.00
Paulette's donation                   $10.00
Anonymous matching donation   $38.00
TOTAL                                     $86.00

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The next three tributes come from Toni at 3AM Designs. She has donated $10.00 for each of her tributes which include:

39)   Toni says, "The first person I want to honor is Pam, who was recently diagnosed for the second time with breast cancer, after being cancer-free for 10 years. Pam is married to my cousin, Woody, and I've loved her from the first time he brought her home when they were dating. I'm so glad he chose to add her to our family. Pam and Woody have three daughters: Natalie, Erin and Meghan. Everyone is holding Pam in their hearts, knowing that she will beat this thing again. "

The photo was taken at a fresh market in Nice, France when we visited our son at the end of his semester abroad.

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40)   I would also like to honor Donna, who lost her battle with breast cancer in October, 2007, after a courageous battle. Even though I didn't know Donna personally, I felt as though I did because she was so loved by my very dear friend, Anne. Donna loved teaching high school math and was loved in return by her students. She is survived by her husband, Gene, and her children: Chris and his wife, Jessica, and Heather and her husband, Gary. Donna is missed by many friends, but Anne asked that I mention Drexel and Becky who have been especially supportive to both Donna, during her illness, and Gene in learning to cope with the trauma of losing his love and best friend.

The photo was taken at Atlantic Beach, NC. Donna enjoyed spending time at the beach with her friends and family each summer.

 

The photo was taken at Atlantic Beach, NC. Donna enjoyed spending time at the beach with her friends and family each summer.

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41)  I saved my Grandma, Mary Carter Starling, for last, not because she's the least important, but because I wanted to write a bit more about her. My Grandma had breast cancer twice, but she still lived to be 85 years old. This amazing woman raised 18, yes 18! children. My grandmother was 20 years old when she married my grandfather, who had 5 children from his first marriage. What was she thinking!?! She then had 12 of her own children (one died when she was 5 months old). Her youngest son was just 4 years old when my grandfather died, which was 3 months before I was born - yes, I had an uncle only 4 years older than me! A couple of years later, Grandma married my step-grandfather, who had 2 young sons. Again, what was she thinking!?! Grandma actually helped to raise even more children. Her sister was 9 months old and Grandma was 12 years old when their mother died, so she had to take care of her baby sister. Then there are all of us grandchildren who were sent to Grandma's at some time or another. Some of them stayed with Grandma most of their lives. I spent about 6 months with her when my mother was going through a divorce. In other words, it's hard to say, how many of us she helped to raise, but it was a lot! The woman was BUSY!  To read Toni's entire story about her grandmother, CLINK THIS LINK.

The photo is a lilac tree in my yard.

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 In memory of Ellon St. Croix's friend, Shauna Harbridge, who lost her battle with Breast Cancer on December 30, 2008.

 

 

 

 

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One of Lori's tributes is for her mother, Eler Dowell, who beat Breast Cancer when she was in the sixties after having a mastectomy. She will be eighty-five in December.

She is truly a success story.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Photo: A Pink Scarf knitted for me by a Blog Bud from another continent.

 

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  Another of Lori's tributes is posted with sadness. A friend of her family's, Julie Meador, lost her battle with Breast Cancer two months ago. Lori says, "We miss her greatly."

 

 

Photo: Lake Tahoe

 

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Jeanne of Bermuda Bleuz's tribute is for her thirty-one year old cousin, Nancy, who passed away of Breast Cancer.

Her baby is only nine months old and her oldest is four years old.

 

Photo: Clouds over Colorado

 

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Sally Lomax's tribute is for everyone who is suffering with Breast Cancer.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Photo:  A Trail through the Colorado Aspens

 

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Current tally for Breast Cancer Research:

Swampy owes                     $46.00
Paulette's donation              $10.00
Anonymous match               $46.00

Total                               $102.00

I know that $102.00 is not much, but it might just be the HUNDRED dollars that is instrumental in finding a cure, and there won't be a need for these sad tributes that you've just read.  There are still several days left to send your own tributes.

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 47)  Faye at Summit Musings has two friends of over twenty years who have both passed the five year mark in their fight against Breast Cancer.

Sherry is busy helping her only son and daughter-in-law adopt little Quenton from Guatemala.

 

Photo: Taken from the Colorado National Monument looking into the valley where I live.

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 Faye's other friend, Kathy, who has also passed the five year mark in her fight against Breast Cancer is involved with an on-going love/hate relationship with her new boob.

 

Faye says that neither Sherry or Kathy slowed down through this whole process even when, this year, both of them had a scare that the cancer may have come back. Thankfully for both...not.

 

Photo: Independence Monument atop The Colorado National Monument

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49)  Heather says, "I wanted to add Rick's wife. She is my  husband's coworker's wife. She was diagnosed about three weeks ago after going in for her first mammogram at age forty, and they found a lump. She has two small children at home and, of course, Rick. We are praying and pulling for her, and I thought of what you are doing here and had to add her to the list at the beginning of her journey with this terrible disease.

 

 

 

 

 

Photo: Pike's Market, Seattle

 

 

 

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Jo Beaufoix's AUNTIE. A ten-year survivor !

 

 

 

Photo: Pansies at Ft. Worth Stockyards

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51) Marie says, "My friend and coworker, Shirley Q., was just recently diagnosed with Breast Cancer. She has a very aggressive form of Breast Cancer. She recently underwent a bilateral mastectomy and had eleven lymph nodes removed from her left breast. Please keep Shirley and everyone battling this disease in your thoughts and prayers."

Photo: Flowers at Bloedel Preserve
Bainbridge Island, Washington

 

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52) Passionately Pink says, "My best friend, Julie, lost her battle with Breast Cancer in 2005. Julie was a loving and caring individual and Mother figure for those in need of a Mother figure. Julie had a hard life because of bad choices in men. She was a battered woman and became a single Mom at a young age. She never lost her spirit though. She always looked for the positive side of life. Julie taught her children to appreciate life and be grateful for what you have. At age 40, she decided to go back to college and received her bachelor's degree. After finishing college, she gave back by working for a women's shelter for battered women and their families. I think about Julie in some way everyday. I recently had a baby of my own. I thought to myself if only Julie could see this. I miss her greatly for all the motherly advice that I will not receive from her and her smile and joy for life.
We need to find a cure for this disease and as women, support any organization that is actively seeking a cure.

Photo: Colorado Sunrise

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53) Kila's first tribute is for her co-worker, Denise. She says, "Denise found out she had Breast Cancer in September of 2007, the same day her granddaughter was born. First we had the call about the new baby--tears of happiness. Then a couple of hours later rang the other call from the doctor's office, which brough different tears. One year and one month later, she is done with all her treatments and is doing well !!"

Photo: Lake at Elk Mountain Resort
Telluride, Colorado

 

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54)  Kila's second tribute is for her friend, Krista, who had Breast Cancer several years ago, at about the age of thirty-seven. She defeated it and even went on to have another baby ! She was able to breastfeed the baby with her remaining breast. Once the baby was weaned, she had reconstructive surgery. She's been a survivor for at least five years now.

Photo: Sunset on Liberty Cap Trail
Colorado National Monument

  

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55) Who will be next?

Many of you have asked if it's OK to link this post to your blog...OF COURSE it is. I would be honored.  I would also be thrilled if anyone else wants to match funds for my donation at the end of October.

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Day 3: Walk-4-Life

This past weekend, Anode Man and I celebrated our SEVENTEENTH anni-ver-see-ary !

Our plan was to drive through the mountains, enjoy the beautiful golds of the Aspens, attend Cedaredge Apple Festival, and drink fresh cider.

That didn't happen.

Upon awakening and trying to open my eyes due to tremendous pollen infestation in my head, I realized. . .  that . . . it was the annual Walk 4 Life day. . . that.. . . registration was exactly 45 minutes from now . . . and. . . that. . . it would take a good 30 of those 45 minutes for me to shower, dry my hair, and apply my war paint. 

Fast forward to here:

The participants began by walking under this arch of balloons and bows. 
You can tell by those streamers, it was a breezy morning.

 

The walk was to raise money for women who can not afford to pay for mammograms.

 

Hundreds and hundreds of people showed up on this beautiful Colorado morning.
You know the kind of morning.  
The kind where the air is so fresh that it feels like ice cubes have lodged themselves in both nostrils when you inhale.  
The kind where the sun is just warm enough to counteract a chilly breeze. 
The kind that makes you thankful you're alive.

The walkers came in all shapes, sizes, ages, and pedigrees. 
Yes, there were many of the canine variety on the walk.

 

The walk winded its way along the Colorado River.

You know that old saying, "Take time to stop and smell the roses?"
Well, this was a day to take time and enjoy the view of the Colorado National Monument.

And then do a one-eighty to enjoy the view of  The Grand Mesa, Mt. Garfield, and The Bookcliffs in the opposite direction.

Isn't there some quote about "going the wrong way on a one-way,"  or "swimming upstream," or which way did they go?" . . . or something ?

 

The journey through Breast Cancer does not have to be a lonely one.

If you or someone you know is on this journey, there are many support systems out there to help. 

One of these is the American Cancer Society.

You can contact them anytime, day or night, for information and support.

Their number is:  1.800.ACS.2345

Their website is:  www.cancer.org

CLICK HERE

Five things to tell your friends about Breast Cancer :

1. All women can get Breast Cancer, even those who have no family history of the disease.
(An upcoming post is "Real Men Get Breast Cancer.)

2. The two most important factors for Breast Cancer are being a woman and growing older.

3. Women diagnosed with early Breast Cancer, when the cancer is small and has not spread, have a high chance of surviving it.  Mammograms are the best way to find Breast Cancer early:  Get one every year starting at age 40.  If you notice any breast changes, tell your doctor without delay.

4. You can help reduce your chances of developing Breast Cancer by engaging in regular physical activity, maintaining a healthy weight,  an limiting alcohol intake.

5. Through early detection and improved treatments, more women than ever are surviving Breast Cancer.  

Think Pink . . . Early Detection Saves Lives . . . I'm living proof !

Day 2: Breast Cancer Awareness

There have been several Octobers in the past few years of my blogging attempts that I didn't miss a day with a Breast Cancer Awareness post.

Many of you who have read here, for whatever reason, know my story.

This particular year marks my TWENTIETH to be have been diagnosed. 

Twenty years ago today I was as bald as a cue ball, reeling from the effects of four rounds of my chemo-cocktail which consisted of Adriamyacin and Cytoxin.   Was also back in my classroom of students at Central Middle School in Bartlesville, Oklahoma. 

My day wasn't over when the last bell rang.  It continued with a trip to St. Francis Hospital in Tulsa, almost an hour away, for forty-five radiation treatments. 

I am so thankful for the support system I had. 

Follow along this month as I attempt to make at least one person aware of the importance of early detection. 

Think Pink !

 

 

Day 1: Breast Cancer Awareness Month

So, how will you be aware ?

Color Me Pink

Bank of Colorado...Get Your Free Haircuts Here !

Even though October, Breast Cancer Awareness month is behind us, many have a long road ahead of them fighting for their lives.  By the time you finish reading this post, about  six women and possibly  a man will have been diagnosed with Breast Cancer. Approximately one will have died !

It is with great passion that this post has been created.  When most of us walk into our banks, we see a staff of people doing their jobs at their desks or at teller counters or at other places within that building.

We probably never realize there are some banks where employees step out of the realm of cashing checks and making loans to reach out to help those who cannot afford a mammogram.

 

The Patterson Branch of the Bank of Colorado is one of those banks. The officers and employees there have been participating in a Breast Cancer Fundraiser for the last several years by first making and selling ribbons in the bank lobbies, and later, holding bake sales and chili cook-offs. There was even a Dueling Piano Show at the Mesa Theatre. The evening was a great success ! The place sold out !

Long-haired-Buffalo-Bill-looking-vice-president, Steve Love, came to realize that here in a pretty conservative Grand Junction, many his age and even younger found his 60's, the 1860's, hairstyle  shall we say..."unacceptable."  He happened on a "brilliant idea" that he would get his hair cut if his critic d'jours would make a donation of maybe $5,000 to the charity of their choice.

These conversations continued here and there but always moved to other topics.  One such discussion, fueled by a holiday party and a keg of beer, was overheard by co-worker and marketing guru, Amanda Singer.  She had been active in Breast Cancer Awareness for years and sensed a marketing opportunity.  He made a deal, continued to grow the hair, and let Amanda do the work.

Amanda says of Steve, "Being the 'ole cowboy type, I knew Steve wouldn't go back on a handshake, no matter how many drinks were involved.  I started plotting and planning how we could raise $20,000 in just a month. The deal was pretty simple: $5,000 and Steve would get what I call a gentleman's haircut, $10,000 a haircut AND the beard had to go, $20,000 he would shave his head and face!"

Steve's wife, Sue, will tell you that he was never a "long hair" in college. His parents made it pretty clear that they were paying the bills, and that they did have "standards."  He marveled at what The Man (coaches, bosses, and those people who like to mind everybody else's business) found "too long" by hair standards.  Steve says, "So, I've been getting 'attention' for years."

Steve explains that his sons have grown their hair long on occasion, generating some interesting extended family discussions, but they were always encouraged to be individuals. He goes on to say that both of them sport short hair cuts these days.

He has several explanations for his long hair...while coaching his son's soccer team for six years, he grew his hair even longer, ignoring his critics with the excuse, "I'm just trying to relate to the kids."  Another is that his barber shop closed.  One explanation grabs at my heart strings...his marvelous co-worker went through an extended battle with cancer.  Steve says, "She lost that battle, but my hair became a little tribute to her."

But, Amanda's scheming and plotting and planning didn't just involve Steve.

Enter Amanda's brother, Justin McCain. Being a framer, working in the hot sun, Justin wanted to shave his head back in May prior to the summer temperatures here but decided he would also love to participate in the fundraiser by donating his ponytail for this worthwhile cause.

 

Both gentlemen were seated and appeared a wee bit bit fidgety as Santa, and Dee from MJM Institute of  Cosmetology prepare them for a shearing.

 

Just a few of young ladies from MJM who came to learn the skills of whacking off a ponytail...or two.

 

The eyes say it all...With one quick swoop of Dee's clippers, Steve's ponytail has been separated from his head, where it has been located for many, many years.

Justin just closes his eyes as Santa and Steve witness the ponytail removal. Let's just hope that Dee's eyes aren't closed.

 

Don't purse those lips too much. Dee seems a little clipper-happy judging by that smile on her face, and the beard might not be the only thing missing from your face.

 

Have I mentioned that Dee is clipper happy ? She and her buzz saw have moved over to Justin's head, and Shelby has now stepped in to work her magic on Steve.

What ear ?
 

Bank of Colorado President, Chris Launer, seems to have elicited some kind of painful response from Steve. Surely,it's not the haircut that hurts.

 

Evidently, judging by the look on Steve's face, not only is it painful, it's very, very scary !
 

 

Not to worry, Steve, there's plenty of cake to make it all better !

One for you and one for Chris.

 

Steve's sister and brother-in-law, Carolyn and Gene Lenderman, came to share in the fun and festivities.

 

Now wonder who could be sporting this hip-hair-style ?

 

It appears that Justin knows this lady.

Ah-Ha!  Alice Lucas is the proud Grandmother of Justin and Amanda who were an integral part of this successful Breast Cancer Fundraiser.

 

And just how successful ?  Chris presents Penny Cowden, executive director of St. Mary's Hospital Foundation this large check.

Penny poses with Robert Bray, of Bray Real Estate, who has served on the Board of Directors at St. Mary's Hospital.

Still can't read how much the check is for?

Don't worry about the spelling, it's the numbers that count !

$11,009.49 !

ELEVEN THOUSAND, NINE DOLLARS, and FORTY-NINE CENTS.

This money will be donated to the Wilma B. Bacon Mammography Center supporting the Butterfly Fundraiser. The Butterfly Fundraiser helps uninsured and under-insured women in Mesa County receive mammograms.

And what about the ponytails ?  They will be donated to Pantene Beautiful Lengths.

The rest of these curly locks were swept up and tossed.

Justin's New Look

 

Steve's New Look  (Nice shirt...gotta love that logo !)

Thanks to everyone who made this event happen and to all those who donated money to the Butterfly Fundraiser. 

If you want to be a part of this, contact Amanda Singer at The Bank of Colorado in Grand Junction.
970-245-1600

But, don't get too close to her. You may end up in The Bank of Colorado Barber Shop receiving a free haircut.

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Early detection saves lives. Know the facts !

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